As we start to pull up to their moms house, their pulls out of the garage with my d in her car. I pulled up and said what’s going on? I am supposed to pick up my d. She said she left work early because my d was terrified I was coming to pick her up.
Hi Wolfman,
Okay. So, what did you do? I'm imagining myself in this situation--((turns away from ex-wife)) "Hey D, you look scared. That's totally okay. Is it my GF? My new place? Me? I get you don't want to be around GF. Would you like to get dinner--just son, you, and I--then return to mom's? Not tonight? That's okay. I love you always. If you change your mind, text me, else I'll be here the same time with the same question next week."
Originally Posted by Wolfman
I am at the point do I just give up on my d?
I'd hope not! What message does that send? What does that say about your feelings towards her?
Originally Posted by Wolfman
Or do I fight through court to get her back?
I would fight through court for any proven misbehaviors by your ex.
Originally Posted by Woldman
I am mentally exhausted and this is not fair to my gf while she is pregnant, because she see how it upsets me. And we should be happy about having a baby in a month.
If you're having trouble coping, seek your own therapist. If a therapist is too expensive, seek a life couch. If that's too expensive, seek a free support group. It's totally okay not to be happy all the time when going through this. I agree you don't want to put too much emotional weight on your pregnant GF. From this place of strength, fight for your D with love and understanding, and fight your ex-wife in court with facts showing any wrongdoing. OR, if you're not up to fighting your ex-wife in court, accept that and reach out to her as the one with the power.
