So when I was going to the psychologist he noticed some of these things. He said to me he couldn’t put that in the report (alienation) because his job was to just reunify us. He also did mention he sees the alienation but it’s not his job to put that in the report, just to report on how our relationship is. I asked if this is something you observed shouldn’t you put it in the report? He said no because his job was just to report to progress between my daughter and I. Very frustrating because that would have helped me in court. I also asked him what the goal was in a month, where does he he see my relationship with my daughter? He said hopefully you spending more time with her. I said if you don’t recommend more time she won’t do it. I just spoke with a new attorney who has been doing this for 25 years and said the psychologist should have been increasing the amount of time I spend with my d. If his job was to reunify and my d is stating that I am not doing anything wrong then he should of made it happen. Even the psychologist said my d can’t verbalize any reason why she doesn’t want to be with me or come to my home. My d does it because she does not want to disappoint her mom. She sees how her mom just cuts people out of her life and I am sure she is scared that could happen to her. Look my d therapist and the psychologist both told me I am the safe parent, that she knows I will always love her and forgive her. That came from both of them. I am speaking with my d therapist Saturday privately. She needs to know the truth. The truth is that one my d and ex make up the same lies.
Give you an example. Both said that my d has no problem with my ex’s bf and everything is great. The reality is I saw a text conversation between the 2 of them. How my d was eating he is there too much, she never spends time with them and my d exact words to her mom were, you are shoving him down our throat. Yet my d says to the therapist there are no problems that she likes when he is there. She covers for her mom. How can a therapist treat my d properly when she is not telling the truth. There are plenty others. Thank you all for your input. This is so hard. I miss my d so much and love her so much!!!!


M:42 XW:41
T:19 M: 15
D:13 S:10
BD: 8/10/18
Moved out: 8/18
Moved in: 9/18/18
Moved out: 4/22/19
D papers signed 11/4/19
D final 3/18/20