It is sometimes strange that everything can suddenly look a bit different than one might think at first.
I can imagine that it feels like a certain relief for you to share your story with someone from his side of the family. She seems to be a really good person.
In the beginning this is all very difficult because you and the children (if older) are the only ones to see what is actually going on, many outsiders, even though they are very close to you or to your H, do not see how this person has changed, since they have an incredible way of hiding it.
But after a while, and certainly after 2 years, like in your case, everyone in their close environment are beginning to see that they are really not doing well. They can't hide it anymore.
This was also the case with my situation and because of this I feel, strangely but true, enormously supported, and this helps us as well to take steps in the right direction.
Anyway, you are one strong person and I sincerly hope the sun will rise for you very soon!!
