Originally Posted by Wolfman


I spoke with the psychologist we go to together and he said this is terrible she won’t bring my daughter. I told him, do you now see the parent alienation. I wish instead of him trying to be nice if he would have just reported the truth to the court.


So, here's my question, prompted somewhat by CW's response and somewhat specifically how you worded what you said, but you said you TOLD him do you now see parental alienation. You told him that, but did he say yes he saw it? Did he agree with you? Did he respond to that in any way? CW supposed that maybe he was uncertain but just agreeing since you are paying the bill or possibly not qualified to make that specific allegation. While I feel bad for you and the situation that you find yourself in with your D, you continue to just blame the XW and your D instead of looking at things that might be causing it from your side. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying you or your gf are abusing your daughter or even necessarily doing anything wrong. Your D is a teenager and teenagers are MOODY, so she could just be behaving like a brat because she gets her way more in her mother's home. You seem to get laser-focused on one thing (in this case, parental alienation by your XW) and not really look at the bigger picture. I somehow doubt that the psychologist neglected to report "the truth" because he was just being nice. That isn't what psychologists are paid for. And, what, exactly is "the truth" or are you just frustrated because your version of the truth isn't matching up to the psychologist's?


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids