I hope things are heading in the direction you want, but yes, proceed with caution.
Remember, you can't talk your way out of this. It is going to be an accumulation of small events that precipitate large change. Even MWD wrote something quite similar in DR.
I would advise you to be less wordy in your response and to respond with more validation and concern for her.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
