HI Mako,

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maybe now we might be piecing, or at least going that direction?
I have seen many get to this point. It is important for you to keep making positive changes to your behavior. Many let the other spouse back too easy. There is a balancing act.

I am not as versed as I should be in the signs that you are in piecing. I know there is a post that calls out the signs. I may have quoted it. I believe you are still in the "busting phase", but your behavior needs to change once you are in piecing. Until you know for sure you are in piecing, I believe busting behavior is better.

I wish you well

R2C

Might read this if you havn't already:
https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2251855#Post2251855


Last edited by Ready2Change; 04/20/21 04:21 PM. Reason: Added link to peicing

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712