Originally Posted by Steve_
Yes I didn't mention it here because I made the choice to help my IL's move regardless of what anyone says. These people have supported us for 11 years, they bought a house for us to live in twice, they care for my kids 4 days a week while WW is out galivanting. I was not going to not help them.

Again Steve I have no issue with you helping them move.
Originally Posted by Steve_
I'm going to be honest and be straight up, I have hope my WW can change and turn herself around, for the sake of my family and the fact that she is a very special woman but so naïve to men befriending her.

Steve your W is not going to change anytime soon.
Originally Posted by Steve_
I did tell her that the friend thing isn't gonna work for me and that I deserve better than that.

So what has changed since you made that statement?
Originally Posted by Steve_
She said "I know" and its been good between us but I am just tired of being plan Z.

So how do you prevent yourself from being plan Z?
Originally Posted by Steve_
I'm not ready to make some big push or anything to end our legal marriage and disappear, I will just continue to try and detach as much as I can and remain in a better place along the way.

I see a lot of pain in your future.