A year on and standing 2

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I did ask her if she ever thought how I would feel about it when she invited that person over? She mentioned no and claimed that friend was not in the picture. I reminded to her if she had forgotten the role of this friend whom was trying to matchmake? Then I told her if it was unintentional, I let it slide this time round but this is my boundary and do not cross it.

Wow TS this is very weak and controlling. You sound more like her dad then her husband.[/quote]

Yes I do note that there is a potential that her change would be permanent.

More then likely permanent

Because I kinda feel sick about it and could not quite bring myself to go through everything again.

This feeling will fade with time.

I also monitor my kids happiness very closely.

How is this measured?

At least for the next few years, when the kids are more grown up and able to fend themselves, then I will be more comfortable of leaving them with her alone.

Sounds like a horrible situation for then next few years