Overall I think you are doing well but there are some areas you may need clarification on.
Originally Posted by Pack_19
She also started sending me emails about our new home in Munich, I was not answering so her L got in touch with mine. My L said I should answer those emails and not be immature.
I agree with your lawyer. You should answer questions regarding kids and finances but be as brief as possible. If you can give some examples of the emails I can suggest how to respond.
Originally Posted by Pack_19
I told her the house causes me too much pain and we are close to selling it after I handled it all BY MYSELF and I will not explain a thing to her, enough that she is going to get half the winning we make after I took responsibility for all.
That was a weak and kind of pricky statement. Stay away from statements like this in the future.
Originally Posted by Pack_19
I later sent her an email telling her not to ask me anything more about the house.
Pac that was a controlling email that will just remind her that you have not changed.
Again, you are making a lot of great changes and accomplishing some impressive goals but you have some work to do in regards to your interactions.