[Eagle3]

Glad to see H’s visit started out nicely. How long is he planning on staying?D

Haha, sometimes a person should better not speak too soon...the first signs resurfited yesterday (very, very quickly irritated by children's behaviour, can't handle much), but overall still OK.
He is staying until next Monday, so 10 days in total.

In that void of the somewhat numbness toward H, other feelings will look larger than they really are. Something to consider while walking your path. This flows directly into finding, fixing, and following our beliefs and values.D

Thanks for that. I will definitely take this into account

I asked this morning in regards to the invitation at his Brother's house and he simply said OK. Nothing more, nothing less. So he is coming. I'm actually not surprised because very few times he went to family (even his) with kids alone since BD. He always prefers I'm there as well. (I guess he needs the strenght?)

The divorce discussion is along the same lines. H chose to visit under the same roof; the ideal place and time to discuss certain items.D

I guess I will need to ask for a timing to discuss these things since kids are there most of the time.
Will wait some days and ask towards the weekend. Not because I have fear, simply because I don't want a stressfull situation around the kids since you never know how he will deal with it.

Have a lovely day!