Honestly, there IS vindication in it, DNJ. He kept telling me how miserable our marriage was. Surrre. The marriage was SO bad you went out and got remarried in a hot second. That’s just what logical people do at the end of a terrible marriage.

I don’t want anything to do with him; too many years of lying and deceit. And he really put me through h€ll. He put us all through it. I am far from perfect but that guy is just a fundamentally difficult person.

Sometimes I still cannot believe how crazy he went. How ironic it is that he repeated his dad’s story: married his affair partner who even had the same name as his dad’s affair partner.

The funny part is that he’s been single longer after his marriage that lasted less than 6 months than he was single after his marriage that lasted 18 years. He remarried 9 months after our divorce was finalized!!!! I fully was expecting to see an MLC baby being born over there...

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced