DnJ, you are probably tired of telling me the same things in different words.
Nope, not even close.
I enjoy talking with you.
Originally Posted by Sage4
In both your XW and my H's situation, it is almost as if your and my strength (serenity, goodness, love, compassion) is too powerful a force, one that must be beaten down, smashed, broken in an attempt for our spouses to gain some sort of internal sense of power or control.
Yes, that is it. They are out of control and try all kinds of things to feel better and in control of their lives.
Originally Posted by Sage4
Except it didn't work, did it?
No it did not. Lol.
All their stubborn blameful prideful unjustified projections does not make it so. Try as they might.
Originally Posted by Sage4
I have been working on sorting out feelings vs logic lately and overall believe I have been doing a good job.
You are doing an excellent job!
Next up, beliefs. Logic (and feelings) vs beliefs.
By the way, feelings vs logic vs beliefs, is not a battle between them to see which comes out on top. Each is important and each strengthens and influences the other. We are just getting them organized and straighten out is all.
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
