Thanks Job. Those are reassuring words.

In my inner thoughts I don’t always take the high road. The two divorces happened almost within a year of each other (15 months!). I DO want to ask: did you get a BOGO from your divorce lawyer? (BOGO = buy one get one free for those of you unfamiliar with what may be a US only shopping term).

Wow. Cannot believe what a classic MLC story he is living.


Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced