I’ll try to pop on here and there to give advice. Although, I’ll have to pray about what I may say. Lol! I’m no longer into that telling someone what they want to hear. I’ll be blunt and honest.
That sounds like a great 180.
I know that I have to think hard about how to respond. I then have to choose my words wisely to hopefully convey the message effectively. The best part of that is it solidifies my view of the subject and when I have to make some decisions in my own life, it is much clearer on what I should do.
Anyway, glad you are focused on yourself and what you can control. Life after D is good if you make all the positive changes to yourself so you do not have to go through the same learning process with someone else.
Looking forward to reading your advise to the newbies. They need as many perspectives as possible.
HUGS
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
