I really wanted to be snarky and say "my husband, I'd like you to bring back my husband from HI".
The same H who use to verbally and physically abuse you?
I said I was being Snarky...
And no, I would take STBXH back unless he showed serious work and dedication to his issues/triggers.
I'm working on keeping my side of the street clean.
TBH I have seen and heard in our brief passings that he has acknowledged some of his issues and he is looking into addressing PTSD. That's a lot of progress for him.
