Thank you much for the support. It’s been a crazy ride but I’ve finally hoped of the roller coaster. You’re right about the lying and cheating. Nothing changed about my STBX, he only got more brazen. He tried to hide it better. And he became highly disrespectful.
I’m walking away with the peace of mind in knowing that I held true to my wedding vows and that I did all that I could and should have done.
We barely talk to one another now and when we do it’s all about business. As soon as the divorce is final, I’ll be going total no contact. The kids are old enough to communicate with him on their own. Thankfully I don’t have to deal with custody mess. So it’s going to be easy to go no contact.
I’ll try to pop on here and there to give advice. Although, I’ll have to pray about what I may say. Lol! I’m no longer into that telling someone what they want to hear. I’ll be blunt and honest.
Thanks again!
Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together
