So many people leave the boards without ever updating.
I’m so glad you’re in a good place and saved yourself. You made the right choice because your STBXH wasn’t changing. Cheaters cheat and liars lie mainly because they don’t see anything wrong with it.
Finding and understanding your value is an important part of the process.
I also did IHS for about a year and a half and although it’s a distant memory it’s definitely not for the weak lol.
Hope you stick around to post. I think the women could use the advice from someone who has come out on the other side.
