WOW!!!!! I can’t believe it’s been over a year since I last posted here. Thank you so much for checking on me LH19, sorry it took so long for me to respond.
So much has happened in the past year! However, to sum things up, I finally took a stand and decided to divorce bust my marriage by saving myself. I decided to finally make myself a priority.
To be honest, my STBX wasn’t going to change. He went from bad to worse. The more lies he told the more I started to see him for who he truly is.
So my friends, late 2020, I filed for divorce. Our divorce should be final in a few months. We stayed in our marital home this past year as an IHS, which I would advise anyone to avoid at all cost. If possible. It’s been awful but financially it made sense. However, it wasn’t ideal.
I’ve been in therapy and have finally got back to a place where I know my worth. I’ve gotten so much stronger the past year. I’m in an amazing place. I’m becoming a better version of myself. I’m taking care of my health and my business is thriving.
I’m finally financially independent from him and it feels amazing!
I’m happier than I’ve been in 3 years! Life is beautiful!
I’m no longer stuck in limbo....I’m FREE!!!!!
Last edited by Living; 04/08/2111:05 PM.
Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together
