And I’m sorry, I didn’t mean to dump all of this here. I apologize to anyone who has read this all. I’m wordy. I also have a lot of bottled up negative energy.
No need to apologize! This is why we are here, to vent!! haha.
Prior to this current job, my ExH was a workaholic and he was let go. (he worked a lot but he hated his last job, and he also hates his current job) That hit his ego hard. He had childhood trauma as well, so there was already deep seeded self-identity/self-worth issues to begin with. So of course, he was angry. But in reality so much of his anger comes from fear - fear of abandonment, fear of not being loved, fear of being seen as unworthy. In the end, there is nothing we can do. They gotta work through their sh1t themselves.
I don't have an answer for you, but working on yourself is always the right thing to do. and yes like kml said, get your finances in order.
