New Beginnings Pt 3

[CanBird]

A whole week with XH visiting might just get things over the finish line.

I sure hope that's how it plays out. All I can do is throw a pitch.

THIS IS the moment. THIS IS the finish line.

This is just a possible finish line..

I'm happy to be running in the race. If we don't try then we'd just never know the possible out come.

True, much effort and number crunching has been invested into yourself and your life to get to this point. Remember, if XH doesn’t make a deal this week, there will be other future opportunities; the finish line would only be moved forward a bit. Although him considering your proposal is a pretty good sign that things may progress well. I’m hoping it does.

Dial expectations to zero and see what XH has in mind. As best you can - if needed - gently steer towards your goals.

You are doing wonderfully. Continue your path. And tend your flock.

Gently steer towards my goals... my goal is coming to an agreement with exH and we sign it. I have no idea how to start the conversation with exH. Well, we've already starting talking about it via email.... but I'm not sure how to really start the conversation. ... keep it all business, with zero expectations... "Hey,, can you set sometime aside, to talk with me about the house? With your mom being here, it'd be the perfect time, can we do that? " I would say that in front of his mom, so she knows I need to talk with him. I have no problem telling her what I need.

Time for bed...

Have a good day D