New Beginnings Pt 3

[CanBird]

Everybody has creepy crawlies of some sort in there home. The invaders I have are blue baby centipedes. (2" long).
They bite; it stings like a bee. Never in my 8 year of living in this house have I ever seen an invasion like this! I killed at least 10 in my kitchen. Guess what I'll be doing in the near future. Oh, did I mention my pool funky again I know, hard times right? It's a pain, but I do love it.

My intuition can be pretty spot on sometimes, and I was spot on about my MIL coming with exH to visit. They arrive in 14 hours, will be coming to the house to get D4 and then going to their accommodations that are pretty close to my house.
I'm excited for D4. I haven't told her yet. Just put a note in her lunch that says, "A BIG surprise is coming your way soon!" I LOVE surprises. I'm sure she'll have a great time.


THIS IS WHERE I NEED HELP: Is there a how to on this?
While exH is here, we need to finalize the house. I want to buy him out & he's "considering it". I've made it clear in a few emails my intent, and have made offers. I've got an agreement written up and a mobile notary on speed dial. We just have to sit down and agree on a number.


THIS IS WHERE A.D.D. affects my life....(I made a call today to seek IC..not for my A.D.D. but that's part of it)
I feel SO confident at times, but get flustered and feel... well stupid. Okay, that's the wrong thing to say! I'm not very experienced when it comes to negotiations. Especially my house! THAT"S HUGE!! Why do I feel like this man has control over me? Maybe because I allow myself to think that. Like I'm coming against an opponent that usually outwits me. I do feel like I've come along way. I've just got to write down some points, and practice my preach. You know, like you do before a job interview. Role play... ..

This is the first time D4 and I will spend more than the night apart. I better GAL up a storm right? Heck yeah! I've got one task that I have to complete ASAP... background check (sf85) anyone done it? Funny, I was suppose to start it on Friday, with a 3 day deadline, but I had issues logging in until today. The deadline was waved by the supervisor who does the checks and he said take your time, all good! Great, but I'm going to do it ASAP of course, so I can GET that firm offer and EXCEPT it with an AMEN! You bet I'll take it!

SO many things going on at once. But I am blessed in so many ways. When our new routine gets started here, in OUR home, with me working from home, and D4 starting K in the fall, it is going to be SO sweet. That is going to be my thought to get me though.

Okay... it's midnight where I am... my favorite time to post... I know the east coasters will be reading this with their coffee.

Be well, be same & Keep on Keepin ON!!