I love reading your posts. I hope you and D are doing well. Yes, make your ex do the work. Don’t make it difficult for him but don’t do things FOR him.
Although Bach 2 sounds nice, I say pass. I have very few deal breakers but smoking is a no go for me as well. Makes my eyes water and I can’t stand the smell. Doesn’t make him a bad guy (we all have flaws-I have a long list of them :-) but doesn’t sound like he’s your guy.
Keep going :-)
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer