You don’t have to ghost someone. You can kindly say you aren’t ready to date and you apologize. And it’s much more unkind to just put someone off until they stop asking. It’s child’s games.
It’s also no fair to be on a dating site when you aren’t dating. People aren’t there for your amusement and void filling. That is what’s most unkind.
Make some female friends. I’m joining a female only hiking group. I realized you can find lots of local groups on FB. I signed up for a full moon nighttime guided kayak tour on the Hudson.
You knit, join a knitting club.
Leading guys on a dating site isn’t the only way to socialize you know......
