It's April 1st! I challenge you to totally stop interacting with Pilot, this guy, and anyone else on or from dating sites (Tinder, Bumble, Match, etc.) for <Your-Age> days. My 3-month break has been life-changing. You don't even have to burn bridges. "Hi, I'm taking a break from folks I met on dating sites. Talk when I return!"

No dates. No hookups. No rescues. Strong KitCat showing off her power!

Get over the hump. You have a problem--you break it into little pieces and solve it. You're lonely--be good company to yourself (music, food, etc.) or get social with others you'd never date due to gender or age.