You’ve done an amazing job, and are way stronger than I could have been.
As for ways to meet men IRL - when my ex first left, I noticed something. Men never used to flirt with me when I was in dutiful wife mode. But when I was in “I’m not giving up, my ex doesn’t know what he’s lost” mode, all of a sudden men were flirting with me everywhere. I wasn’t even dressing differently. It had to do with how I carried myself. I noticed men and they, in turn, noticed me.
Also, once the pandemic passes, we have to get you involved in some singles meetups or social activities where singles will be.
