[Eagle3]

, I do not believe H was ready or looking to hear all that just yet. Remember, no pressure.

H: Are you seeing anyone?

E: I’d rather not discuss my love life right now.

I think you are right here. He was just testing the waters if I had anyone else. Since that phone call he is acting happy again, sends me messages concerning the follow-up of the separation of our common properties in regards of the D etc.

I think the right answer is to use your quote next time.

I also love that you had no expectations and took his flip-flopping in stride.

I can only imagine how many emotions his wanting to come home must bring up in you.

During the call and before that I indeed didn't have any expectations and all was going really well.
The moment he called I couldn't help it but as Elbereth stated, the mixed emotions are creeping in and I have been thinking much more about him the last two weeks again. It is very difficult to step back and watch the bigger picture. The hope for him to come through returns quickly in such cases unfortunately.

I would like to ask you something about the possible OW2 relationship. I'm not sure if he has a relationship currently but as you know I saw some messages end of December which confirmed him communicating again with a new OW.
He apparently confirmed to his mother (only know this since last week) early january that he wanted a divorce because he met somebody new and that his relationship with OW1 was based on lies and deceit and that he therefore did not want the same start in a new relationship.

I do read a lot of stories about an OW1, but almost never about an OW2. Do you know stories that I can read whereby an OW2 is/was involved in MLC?
Since OW1 "was the love of his life", do they have the same feeling about OW2? I almost can't believe this is possible?

Anyway, in 2 weeks he is coming over again. I left the house last time. Will not do it this time and have confirmed this to him as well. He says he doesn't have any problems to stay with me in one house...he really acts like I'm his friend at the moment. I can handle it but assume this is kind of strange?