I remember one Friday night early in my sitch, my WW locked herself in the guest bathroom. I knew she was communicating with other man. I remember the shame at actually being tempted to look under the door to spy on her. I didn't, but later found the nude pictures with the timestamp of late Friday night (~midnight) and early Saturday morning.

IHS is not for the faint of heart, that is for sure. I think I've been accused of trying to make it sound easy, that has never been my intent. Only that physical separation is just as difficult. I don't think one is easier than the other, it is just a different set of difficulties that come with each one.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018