Prep yourself. There's a very good chance she has done physical with someone else, and is lying through her teeth about it - mine did, as did so many others in sitches on this board. The bumble/texting could be "just" emotional and non-physical, but as LH19 points out...why the new panties? They're not for nobody.
Yep, I know it. At a minimum she is quite clearly actively shopping for an EA, and I just have to assume a PA is not far behind and would be welcome if it hasn't happened already. Of course to her the M is over so it doesn't matter.
On that note, she said the other day she was going out tonight, and she just left. I am trying to detach and not care. I know that's the thing to do, and I would love to not care. But I'm not there.
Me: 43 W: 41 Together 2009, Married 2011 Sons 10 and 6, Daughter 5 Bomb 2/21/21. W moved out 10/2021
