Your last update was an interesting read.

So you were at the in-laws house twice yesterday? I assume you dropped the kids off and than went back a second time with the homework? Or have you had the homework for a day or two? Why couldn’t it have been dropped off at school for your son to take to his moms? And why did you have to drop off batteries? Is there a reason his mother or grand parents couldn’t provide them? Steve to the rescue I suppose. Maybe some vets here will disagree with me, but when the kids are in her care, it’s her responsibility to ensure they are taken care of without you needing to run and save her everyday from some trivial happening.

Seriously why can’t you just stay away from that house? You really do find any excuse you can to go see her, I mean go to that house.

I’m sorry you only feel like you’re only a Dad and a door mat. Though I do question how appropriate it is to be drinking alone with two woman that are in committed relationships. You do say you know the boyfriends, but do they know their girlfriends are drinking alone with a guy who’s emotionally weak?

So were you able to accomplish your goal? Did you wife see the picks of you and the woman drinking? Did she get jealous and give you the attention you were going for?


Last edited by JosephS; 03/26/21 04:10 PM.

Me: 40
EX:37
Together 17 years
Married 16 years
5 kids, 20,18,15,14,11

BD 03/06/20, divorced 12/23/21