[quote=DBX80][quote=SteveLW] WAWs are like cats. They run the other way when you reach out to them. But sometimes if you sit still and let her come to you, she will want to come and jump in your lap.
It depends on the context and specific sitch. The way I look at it, if the cat prefers staying in the neighbors yard and has not even entered your house in over a year, sitting still on the couch waiting for it to come jump on your lap may not do much good How long you choose to continue to sit still is a personal choice, as you said.