Originally Posted by LH19
W we’ve been separated for over a year now. This situation isn’t working for me anymore. We can either work on the marriage or get divorced.

But you have to be willing to walk away and d her if she says she doesn’t want to work on the marriage.

I just don't feel this would be a good idea. She really hasn't given me any indication that she would even be willing to entertain the idea of getting back together. The sense I get is that she has made her decision, and she's good with it.