DBX80, I love that so soon after revisiting these forums, you're beginning to step out of the limbo you've been in for a year. Maybe you were already feeling ready--and that's what led you to return.
Yes, I think I returned to the forum for help with the next step. I'm done with being in limbo, and ready to move forward.
Originally Posted by CWarrior
Avoidance is a first, positive step for many--because they can't keep themselves from peacocking or getting angry! No to "ignore", "cold", or "distant". Think friendly cashier mode. Many of us exchange kids. It's a friendly smile and a wave. Sometimes a few words. Maybe a longer update if there's pertinent medical info--"He has.. flees. I've given him Anti-Flea 3x per day".
This makes perfect sense to me, thank you.
Originally Posted by CWarrior
My ex never goes in my home. That would seem to allow her to invade and keep tabs on your life--creepy! I also don't know why she'd visit your place 2x/week. Usually, a mid-point is more fair to both parties, or taking turns depending on who is picking up or dropping off.
Well right now she comes by on Friday to pick up the dogs, and then comes by on Monday to drop them off. Since I'm not at home 99% of the time she stops by, she goes into the house with her key. But maybe I should change this going forward.
