Originally Posted by Thornton
You act like you are happy with how things turned out in your life.

You can talk to her and be friendly (think how you would talk to a neighbor). Avoid relationship talks and if she brings it up, just listen and validate. Even if she mentions she thinks it's time to get a divorce, act cool and unaffected by that.

Act just like you did before you met her and had no emotional attachment to her. A cool, confident guy, who has lots going on in his life.

This is what I was thinking. I just wasn't sure, because I've been going dark for a long time now. So it would be a matter of switching from "going dark" to "friendly neighbor". Thanks!