Yeah I am not interested in snooping, whether the cell phone or the closet. I know a few are in favor though the board is generally against. In my first M I accidentally found out about an OM and then just got kind of obsessed with snooping, it wasn't good for me.
Today's morning update, I made a IC appointment. I saw her for a few months, ending about a year ago when the pandemic hit. It seemed helpful both for me and the M, I kind of wish I hadn't stopped. Will be good for working on myself.
Me: 43 W: 41 Together 2009, Married 2011 Sons 10 and 6, Daughter 5 Bomb 2/21/21. W moved out 10/2021