I’ve read somewhere before that forgiveness is really just acceptance.
The story about the doctor and the patients, is really just being empathetic. Seeing things through other’s eyes. I’m getting pretty good at it. I’ve tried, but I can’t for the life of me see the actions of STBXW in any kind of positive light though.
Me: 41 W:42 T: 14 M: 11 S: 6
"What happened happened, and couldn't have happened any other way...because it didn't"