As others have said - this is a marathon, and not a sprint.
You need to behave exactly as if she’s already divorced you - because in her mind, she already has.
No more letters or begging or contact. There’s no bigger waste of energy than trying to negotiate with a terrorist, or try to fill a cup that’s already full.
The BEST thing you can do is accept that this is how things are for now, and no matter what you do right now, you can’t change it in the short term. This stands you in good stead for either the possibility of divorce or later reconciliation.
As stated above, run (don’t walk) in the complete opposite direction. If it’s meant to be, she will come back. And if it’s not meant to be, you’ve saved 6-12 months in rebuilding your life.
