Also, she would have been irritated if mark HAD included her name on the Christmas cards! With WWs there is no winning.
Steve is like the Jedi Master of seeing through WAW bullshit. Listen to him carefully.
Eventually you’ll realise you can’t placate a WAS no matter what you do, and once you accept that and stop trying or thinking about exactly what you should have said or done, you will have infinitely more time to have a great life.
