Hi LH, It has been 5 or 6 years for you since BD if I understand correctly. Has your ex ever tried to recon since then ? If not, do you still think she might try one day (even if you’re not interested in recon) ?
Despite what AS, Steve or you have said multiple times about the fact that in the long run, WAW will eventually want to give a shot at recon, I still doubt it.
So since BD we did recon once but it was definitely a false recon. I have been divorced and living apart for about 2.5 years. Since the D she has not tried to recon with me. If she did my answer would be no. She hasn't changed still very selfish and miserable yet she won't seek out help to find out why. I know things didn't turn out like she anticipated but I am not sure she is strong enough to ever admit it.
J I have always said 2-5 years. Rarely ever is it before two and if it is it doesn't last. I always tell the story on here that my friends parents reconned after 35 years apart.
