It has been 5 or 6 years for you since BD if I understand correctly. Has your ex ever tried to recon since then ? If not, do you still think she might try one day (even if you’re not interested in recon) ?
Despite what AS, Steve or you have said multiple times about the fact that in the long run, WAW will eventually want to give a shot at recon, I still doubt it.
Personnally, since BD two years ago, I have done everything by the DB book, and I have not heard a peep from my ex for a year now. I am in full NC so I don’t know what she’s doing, but my guess is she must be happy in her new relationship with OM or whoever.
If I ever hear from her and she begs for recon, I will share my story
I have to caveat this because people always get it wrong.
What I have said is EVENTUALLY WASs will want to R. Lots of factors come into play. One or both Ss may die before that occurs. They may remarry and not want to get another D even if they are unhappy in the new marriage. But yes, if both the LBS and WAS live long enough, most WASs will eventually regret their decision and want to R at some point down the line. People have a way of romanticizing things and forgetting the bad over time.
Last edited by SteveLW; 03/23/2102:34 PM.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
