Unfortunately love isn’t about fair. You don’t earn points from successful DBing that you can cash in for rewards. There’s always the free will of another person and that’s never perfectly predictable. What it can do is help you live a happy life, and be better in your next relationship.
Me: 43 W: 41 Together 2009, Married 2011 Sons 10 and 6, Daughter 5 Bomb 2/21/21. W moved out 10/2021
