Being D'd will not prevent future R if it is ever going to happen. Yet so many LBSs are deathly afraid of D.
It’s not that I’m afraid of divorce (anymore). It’s just that in my mind, I always pictured HER filing for divorce, since she’s the one that stepped out of the marriage. I feel like if I file for divorce, it will mean I’m the one that gave up on us. Which is obviously the furthest thing from the truth.
