However, enumerating all of our responses and acting like we are giving you conflicting information on a life or death decision is ludicrous!
No one said it was life or death. All I said was that it was a simple question. Honestly, I agree with LH that it won't matter what I do. It's been a year and half, and nothing has changed. I think if something does change sometime in the future, it won't be because of anything that I do.
Originally Posted by SteveLW
DBX, I do wonder though if you aren't punking us. You show up, get confrontational, about the same time dunnm posts a thread essentially suggesting that the forum is bunk. No one is forcing anyone to post here. And when you do you get people that get nothing more out of trying to help than the fact that they've been through it too, and know how crappy it is. But I would suggest that a year later.......your situation is NO different than last year.....maybe you should be trying something different. That's DBing.
I am not punking you guys. I'm just telling you how it is from a newbie's side.
And you're correct, my situation is really no different than last year. But I have already cut her out of my life as much as is practical. I don't know what else you'd have me do when you suggest trying something different.
How about going and filing for D? You are stuck in limbo for a year and a half! Even in the beginning of my sitch I knew that there was no way I would be able to deal with limbo for that long and put a one year limit. If she wasn't recommitted back to the MR by the 1 year anniversary of BD I was going to go file for D.
I get giving her time and space. But I also truly believe that it shouldn't be infinite.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
