Ruining a possible reconciliation

[ovrrnbw]

I'll add to Wayfarer in that I know how you feel. I too have panicked and posted a gazillion stupid things that, in retrospect, sound so silly. It comes back to detachment and being able to think clearly. Just reread that detachment thread quite a bit.

I told myself every day for almost 2 years that today could be the last day I am married.