The cupcake thing was strange to me, but I wasn’t thinking “oh now she’s coming back!” Lol. My only question was about whether to say thank you or not, because I didn’t want to be a jerk about it. I believe you should be able to DB without being a jerk.
Okay, Mr. Nice Guy, my answer is no. Don't respond. It doesn't make you a jerk.
Can't you see how she is fishing? The cupcakes are a hook. If you bite, she'll pull you back into the game playing.
Just ignore it.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
