We might have different definitions of incredible. Incredible means a great heart, giving and respectful with a good moral standing. That’s incredible to me. Holding out for someone who sees me as an equal and wants to give what he gets.
Attractiveness for me is determined on who the person is on the inside. I cannot rate a man’s attractiveness on a numeric scale. Personality qualities actually changes Outward appearance for me. Someone who isn’t considered conventionally attractive can be in my eyes if they are a good man. Someone who is a cr@p person but conventionally physically attractive will actually become physically unattractive to me.
And height doesn’t matter to me probably because I’m short . A decent income is important to me because I have one and I do need someone who can pull their own weight financially. Not pull my weight, but pull their own. I’ve made more than most of my partners and I have been fine with that, because I don’t need anyone to support me and I didn’t have to support them.
So my definition of incredible is probably a lot different than most
