Steve, I wrote to you months ago. And said you needed to get into IC and that you would likely backtrack and roll over for your trash wife over and over.
That’s exactly what you’ve done... so I’ve stayed out of it, because frankly reading your posts has made my stomach turn.
But I’ve re-entered the fray because I see glimmers of hope.... Don’t disappoint me! Perhaps you’re starting to join the dots.
Get yourself into IC now. Don’t delay or make excuses. YOU HAVE THE CONTROL, right now, to hitch up your pants and get your **** in a pile. Your co-dependency is actually to blame for this terrible situation.
And BTW, she’s complete, manipulative trash - the worst I’ve ever read of on this site.
You can do so much better. Are you up to the challenge?