I get where you’re coming from. The vast majority of the marriages on this site are dead and won’t be resurrected.
And sometimes I feel like people here are just prolonging their pain, and being here to “stand” prevents them from moving on.
But to say the site is a waste of time... no. For me, it was a good resource. It helped me realise over time how much better off I was - and in 18 months I’ve gone from a shell of a man to being completely in control and blissfully happy.
If you believe this site is just about saving marriages, then you are missing the point. It’s actually about saving left behind spouses - and that is done 99% of the time by going separate ways.
