I did, but its gonna take time to swap over. The VA is that way. Its for Psycho therapy this time not an LMFT. Although I do have 3 LMFT's that I see at work and talk to about my situation. They are very pro-detatchment and push me to cut her off asap. The VA one was more of a "save the M" kinda lady. As far as resources go i got the DB and DR books, I got good friends and collegues and lots of support. I just was not able to really see my own value until recently. And I still struggle with it. But each day I get better.


T:11
M:10
K: D5, S7
BD: 9/1/20
WW continues to break up and recon with OM.
I paid last fees and pushed the D 5/3/2021
Default Dissolution granted 8/5/21.
Glad my D was not busted.