She was married for a decade, had an affair, and divorced her husband? How much of that story do you really know vs. what she told you? Food for thought...my W had an affair with a married co-worker with 3 young daughters. When it ended she started dating OM2, filed for D and moved out and moved him in. How accurate of a story to you think she's telling OM2 (or her family and friends for that matter) about our situation? My guess is she's telling him every bad thing she can exaggerate or make up to make him feel better about the situation of...her being married. I bet he think's I'm a jerk and she hasn't filled him in on the details of her affair. Is it possible your W had some major issues and wanted you to think that she was the aggrieved party?
BL is wise
Me: 41 W:42 T: 14 M: 11 S: 6
"What happened happened, and couldn't have happened any other way...because it didn't"