I hate to be that guy, but J your ex is probably one of the most respectful WAS I've ever seen on here. I think at a certain point here you need to realize it isn't that she doesn't respect you it's that she doesn't feel in love with you and has no comprehension what so ever that it hurts you because you're still very much in love with her. I think the bigger issue is here is how much do you respect yourself? Do you respect yourself enough to set healthy boundaries that'll protect you while you heal? Do you love yourself enough to not focus all your energy on getting her back and expend a lot more of that energy in the direction of being the best you, you can be?
